As I go through all kinds of feelings and experiences in my journey through life -- delight, surprise, chagrin, dismay ... I hold this question as a guiding light: "What do I really need right now to be happy?" What I come to over and over again is that only qualities as vast and deep as love, connection and kindness will really make me happy in any sort of enduring way.
Do you know onw thing? first let me ask you this question What is the meaning of life? and the answer is... To be happy and useful. But maybe you got a better answer to say or write but this is what I think and what I believe.
I got a chance to do what I want, when ever I want to do and who so ever I want to do it with....one thing we should all not forget is that we cannot find peace by avoiding life. We should take life the way it's going. Of course I know that there is no formula for success except, perhaps, an unconditional acceptance of life and what it brings. So let us all take the chances we all get and use them very well.
Remember one thing : No one is in control of your happiness but you; therefore, you have the power to change anything about yourself or your life that you want to change.I also cannot believe that the purpose of life is to be "happy." I think the purpose of life is to be useful, to be responsible, to be compassionate. It is, above all, to matter and to count, to stand for something, to have made some difference that you lived at all...
I'm just living myself and I don't give any care at anytime of what other people says about me or think about me, cause no one knows me the way I know myself. Just taking the chances which I'm give from God